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Post by Martin on May 13, 2012 4:25:52 GMT -5
Becoming a Door Matt For a person to become a “door mat” they must first become a victim. When I am approached by negative people that try to make me upset. In order to become upset I must become a victim of their negative act. What I learned to do, is stop being the victim and not react to their attack with anger or hurt feelings. Instead I respond to their negative act with compassion for them. Compassion for them cancels out their negative act against me. In the big picture, I put out positive energy they put out negative energy and what you put out is what you get back. People that are negative toward me, loose interest, why, because they are just pissing into the wind. When you let other people negative acts control your emotions, then you really become The door mat that they wipe their feet on. Now, I can ask you, “Do you think I am a door mat or do you think that you are?”
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